A FEW weeks ago I wrote a post about walking away from people.
From those who make you miserable, treat you shoddily or fill your world with negativity.
The post received quite the response (thanks everyone!) and is still attracting comments, even as I type.
So today, I thought I’d carry on the ‘walking away’ theme and give us all some food for thought on this sunny Friday. Myself totally included.
Because often it’s hard to figure out who a person is or to know if we we should keep someone in our lives.
People make genuine mistakes. People get things wrong. People do silly things when they’re hurting.
But if like me, sometimes you find yourself wondering about a particular person, racking your brains over this and that, trying to decipher what the hell is going on with them and their behaviour towards you… then here are five thought-provoking questions to ask yourself.
Do you feel good around them?
Do you pick up good vibes? Do they make you laugh? Do you find yourself smiling a lot when you’re with them? And the biggie out of the bunch, do you feel comfortable?
Or, do you not? Do they make you feel tense, on edge, stressed or awkward?
Never ignore the feelings you get when you are with someone. Never ignore your instinct.
If someone gets your heckles up or you feel out of sorts when you’re with someone, pay attention. It may just tell you everything you need to know.